The power of silence

The world is connected with the communication. The better communication skills you have the better you are connected. The witty persons think quickly and answer smartly as if they are well prepared to answer your all questions. Whereas there are some who takes a little while to understand what the other person was conveying. Well, it varies from person to person, this is neither a qualification nor a disqualification.  But all of you cannot be quick witted. The person who remains silent in some situation also have a point; they convey it by uttering a single word.

How silence speaks;  

Words have a lot of power. The speeches delivered by famous persons always have great weight age in their sayings. But most of them are quite and calm in their real lives. In their relations with others, they do not indulge into unnecessary arguments. The spiritual leaders as well as other leader use and choose very fine words to convince others. During their speech, when they stop for a little while, their silence creates curiosity what’s the next.

A small boy was playing with a sharp-edged knife. When her mother saw what we he doing. She tried to stop him with every possible way she knew. First of all, she screamed loudly and asked him to stop in a threatening voice, tried to overpower him but the little creature was super-fast and enjoying wasting the efforts of his mother. Meanwhile his father entered the house, he jumped towards his father, and mother after him. The man sensing the severity of the incident made the sign of be silent to the mother, she freezed her feet there only, seeing her mother stopped the little boy also stopped. The father calmly went to boy and took knife out of his tiny grip. He remained silent for few seconds, the child understood that father was angry and what he was doing was wrong and felt sorry for that. The timely intervention of father avoided any unnecessary injury to the son himself or the mother. Silence has the power.

Silence is a language in itself

Every time it is not necessary to win the argument. To win the relations and make them smoother all queries need not to be replied. People of positive mind reacts to the other persons silence in a positive manner and the negative persons do so with negative reactions. Both depends upon situations also. The persons with limited beliefs judge the other persons whereas others judgements have no value at all. Sometimes silence is mistaken as ignorance. When a person is speaking on a topic, the other person prefers to be quite because her/his knowledge about the same topic is better than other. Whereas the former judge her/him is an ignorant.  The wise persons let the others to speak and intervene only then when they feel its important to speak. So, every silence has a meaning and language in itself. Only those can understand it properly knows it well.

• Parents understand the silence of their child and vice-versa.
• Spouses understand the silence of each other.
• All family members understand the silence of one another.
• Friends also know the quietness of each other.
• The employees understand the silence of the boss.
• All sensible persons know about the silence of others

Silence is the expression with many meanings

Silence is the power

• When the relations are true tied with purity and love, no words are required to the express, the silence speaks each and every word.
• When you sit in deep meditation no words are needed, your silence encapsulates.
• The situations those gives you extreme happiness or immense sorrow demand no words.

12 Best situations when silence works

Silence is important to handle both best and worst situations in our lives.

1. The teacher enters the classroom when the whole class was talking in the high pitch.
2. The parents enter the house and the children were quarrelling with each other.
3. The shopkeeper when something expensive is broken by the custom in his shop.
4. When someone asks you something and you choose to remain calm without uttering a single word.
5. When one is extremely emotional .
6.  The person tries to convey you that you know everything, why words are required.
7. Wants to ignore, that words may not be taken wrong.
8. Pack up or end the conversation, so that one may not be misunderstood.
9. Do not want to put stress on the mind of the other person.
10. Agreed to your point of view.
11. Do not want to indulge in unnecessary argument.
12. Helplessness in a particular situation.

Qualities of the persons who choose to be silent

They are:

1. Great observers.
2. Good listeners.
3. Recognise their best potentials and qualities.
4. Mature and wiser.
5. Overcome the negativity
6. Let go the futile.
7. Improves relationships.
8. Become more progressive.
9. Understands and loves other in a pure and subtle way.
10. Remain in meditative state of mind.
11. More peace loving.

Silence further helps:

Some people who are saintly prefer to remain silent for many days to rejuvenate their mind and body.  Silence is powerful. They keep their mind calm and happy. Silence is the force to regulate the waste thoughts of your mind, helps to channelise the energy in the proper manner. It helps to achieve success in all the walks of life. One remains silent when one feels that words are not going to make any difference or influence the other person in any way. Few persons remain silent when they are angry or annoyed, in case of disgusting situation, grief stricken or on the levelling of false allegation by someone. Such persons rarely participate in unnecessary arguments.

Silence your mind and listen to the notes of your inner music.

Make your silence powerful, the unsaid words are more prevalent.

Recognise  your true self with calmness of your mind.

When oceans are quiet, their vastness become infinite,

Helps the navigators to regulate and access their voyage.